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Category Archives: Home + Lifestyle

Create warmth wherever you are.
From recipes and seasonal touches to family traditions and lake-life moments, this is where comfort meets creativity. Simple joys, heartfelt gatherings, and inspiration for a home (and life) that feels good.

The Complete Anti-Inflammatory Diet for Beginners: A No-Stress Meal Plan with Easy Recipes to Heal the Immune System

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
April 10, 2025

How inflammation affects the body + the foods + meal plans to help heal the immune system. book by Dorothy Calimeris and Lulu Cook, … Read More

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Fresh Pico de Gallo

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March 29, 2025

GRILLED PINEAPPLE PICO DE GALLO A little sweet. A little spice. And there’s nothing quite so amazing as GRILLED PINEAPPLE. Oh. Em. Gee. Enjoy … Read More

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Pumpkin Bread

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November 26, 2024

Enjoy this moist, sweet + delicious Thanksgiving favorite!

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Growing Sage

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November 18, 2024

KITCHEN HERB basics: SAGE Basics on Sage (salvia officinalis) A staple in kitchens across America in November, Thanksgiving meals wouldn’t be the same without sage … Read More

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
November 14, 2024

SPICE-ROASTED CARROTS This is the very best carrot recipe I know. A side dish ideal for Thanksgiving (and always on my table for the feast!), this might become … Read More

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Detox Water

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
August 2, 2024

Detox water. Easy to make, flushes impurities AND flattens the stomach. What’s not to love?

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Tomato-Basil Pizza Bites

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July 29, 2024

Easy, delicious + ideal for your summer gatherings! Try this tomato-basil pizza bite recipe!

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Oh, snap!

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
July 20, 2024

Snapdragons are an excellent choice for your garden, landscape, cut flower arrangements–and even planters and hanging baskets.

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ATOMIC HABITS

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
July 12, 2024

An easy & proven way to build good habits & break bad ones book by James Clear When one of the world’s leading experts … Read More

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Mesa Falls, Idaho

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
June 30, 2024

Mesa Falls. This destination? It’s a mesmerizing natural gem, truly.  Heading to Yellowstone National Forest this summer? If traveling through Idaho to get there, … Read More

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Summer’s Beauty Queen

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
June 21, 2024

Gerbera Daisy Oh, she’s a bloomin’ beauty alright.  You just can’t go wrong with summer blooms. But our personal favorite? Hands-down, it’s the Gerbera … Read More

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Easy Grilled Tilapia

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
June 14, 2024

Grilling fish can be easy–AND delicious. This simply recipe uses ingredients you likely have in your cabinet… simply marinade, then grill 4 minutes per side. Dinner is served!

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Plant: Knock Out® Roses

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
May 25, 2024

[thumbnail] Appropriately named, Knock Out® rose bushes stand-out like the knockout babes they are. Their brilliant flowers keep a’bloomin’ throughout the entire summer, and … Read More

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recipe: banana bread

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 9, 2024

Sweet ‘n easy banana bread

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Negril, Jamaica

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 5, 2024

Jamaica. It’s adored as a tropical paradise. The year-round forecast? Sunny and 80 degrees. Sign us up, mon.

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Nutty (Yummy) Fall Acorns

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
October 12, 2023

This fun fall treat is an easy, festive must-make for your fam’ this season. Made at InSuesShoes kitchen, we think you’ll *fall* in love … Read More

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Spiked (+ Spiced) Fall Apple Cider

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
October 11, 2023

It’s an iconic adult treat as tree leaves turn + apples are picked fresh from local orchards.  Spiced with fall flavors like cloves and … Read More

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Get Dirty: fall’s beauty, the mum

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
October 30, 2020

It Just Isn’t Fall without Mums A fall floral favorite, the mum is as much a staple for fall as is a pumpkin to … Read More

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
October 21, 2020

Pumpkin Cheesecake Bars Thank my lil’ pumpkin. (Okay, so she’s 24 years old.)  Last weekend ensued ‘Family Fall Fun Day’ at my house. We … Read More

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Eat, Pray, Love

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
July 13, 2020

Be inspired to begin your own journey of self-discovery with Elizabeth Gilbert’s best selling novel, “Eat, Pray, Love.”

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slippers-only BOOK selection

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 23, 2020

Cousins by chance, sisters by choice… join the InSuesShoes team as we enjoy this new novel by #1 New York Times Bestselling author Susan Mallery

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 16, 2020

Plenty a’ Pretty Pansies Blooming bulbs aside, it’s the pretty pansy that brightens our views in early April.  Yes, often the first-planted blooms of spring, the … Read More

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
February 13, 2020

Easy Pizza Dough  Sure, a soft, candlelit dinner to celebrate Valentine’s Day sounds romantic. But, this year? Why not stay home, bake a homemade … Read More

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Book Club Selection (Ready for some laughs? Of course you are.)

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 27, 2020

THE DOG WHO KNEW TOO MUCH, a Chet & Bernie Mystery By Spencer Quinn This winter, join us at InSuesShoes.com as we read the … Read More

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Homemade Beef-Vegetable Soup

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
January 22, 2020

Easy Beef-Vegetable Soup  What melts winter’s chill better than homemade soup? This easy beef-vegetable soup is hearty enough for a meal, and tasty enough … Read More

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Jackson Hole, Wyoming

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 13, 2020

It’s one of the ultimate destinations for snow-lovers who also embrace majestic natural beauty. There simply is no place quite like Jackson Hole, Wyoming.

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Acorn Squash

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
November 8, 2019

Sue’s Squash This acorn squash is oh, so tender ‘n sweet…  Is it a side dish or dessert? You decide.  So sweet. So tender. … Read More

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Sorry Not Sorry by Sophie Ranald

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
October 8, 2019

SORRY NOT SORRY Book Club selection, written by Sophie Ranald This October, join us at InSuesShoes.com as we read the newest book club’s selection: … Read More

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Apple Crisp

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
September 6, 2019

Fall’s Sweetest Apple Crisp There’s no scent to emit cozy feelings quite like warm, sweet apple crisp. Bake this favorite and the scents of … Read More

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
July 5, 2019

Sweet ‘n Spicy Strawberry Salsa It’s beautiful, sweet, spicy—and perfectly chill. Yes, meet your new BFF.  This salsa is simple to make… just chop … Read More

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June Book Selection

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
June 11, 2019

Summer Readin’ THE SUMMER OF CHASING DREAMS By Holly Martin As summer emerges at last, why not try an uplifting romantic comedy to warm the … Read More

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InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
June 7, 2019

A Honey of a Bloom Honeysuckle It’s sweetly fragrant and wildly attractive. The honeysuckle is a romantic, yet hardy twining vine or arching shrub.  … Read More

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Caprese Salad with Balsamic Glaze

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
June 2, 2019

Caprese Salad with Balsamic Glaze What salad better celebrates warm temps + a relaxed summer attitude than Caprese?  Beautiful, delicious and fresh. Serve me … Read More

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Finds: Fizzics

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
June 1, 2019

Check out this month’s interior home ‘find’ and potential Father’s Day Gift! FizzicsPerfect for your kitchen or home bar… Fizzics’ Waytap is a portable … Read More

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Summer Has Sprung. Are you ready??

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
May 14, 2019

Being a REALTOR®, I should have the best home on the block with perfect curb appeal. But, not so much. Don’t all real estate experts preach about ‘curb appeal?’ Of course we do. And I’ve got it.

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Isn’t It Lovely?

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
May 8, 2019

Lily-Of-The-Valley They’re the beautiful answer to the drab areas in your landscape that just Won’t. Grow. Anything. And don’t let their dainty, tiny, bell-shaped … Read More

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Pitcher Perfect: Basil Berry Lemonade

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
May 3, 2019

Oh, yes. What refreshes better than cold lemonade–and what looks extra dainty and festive for your Mother’s Day celebration? This recipe. 🙂 Give it … Read More

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THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
May 1, 2019

By Gary Chapman ISBN: 13: 978-1-881273-15-8 Amazon.com It’s been a New York Times Bestseller for a reason.  Gary Chapman has been helping countless couples … Read More

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How to Be Here: A Guide to Creating a Life Worth Living
by Rob Bell

InSuesShoes.com Wellness + Balance, Home + Lifestyle
April 7, 2019

He is the king of encouragement and the ignition to any mild flicker of passion within the soul. Rob Bell, the popular pastor and New York Times bestselling author, asks what we will do with the ‘blinking line’ in our lives. What will we make of ourselves? How will you write your own life story? Do you see life as something that happens to you, or do you create your own destiny?

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Sweet Pea Beauty

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 3, 2019

Oh, so Sweet Pea ‘Tis the season to start thinking about your flower garden and landscape (if you don’t have your plan together already!). … Read More

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Adult Easter Egg Hunts

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2019

Easter Egg Hunts. They’re not just for toddlers. All my kids are grown. Some in college. Some out of college. And I’m happy to … Read More

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QUEEN OF KLUTZ

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2019

By Samantha Garman ISBN: 9781726887250 Fun. Lighthearted. And an easy-breathing delight. Our first introduction to writer Samantha Garman’s work, we were hooked from the … Read More

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EVERYDAY MILLIONAIRES: How Ordinary People Built Extraordinary Wealth—and How You Can Too

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
March 30, 2019

By Chris Hogan, with foreword by Dave Ramsey ISBN: 978-0-9774-8952-7 Amazon.com During a season of re-energizing our worlds, it’s also an ideal time to … Read More

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Lucky Bamboo Houseplants

Lucky Bamboo

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
March 6, 2019

Are you feeling lucky this March?  Add this fun, lucky bamboo to your home as a sign of prosperity and goodness to come this … Read More

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Best Balsamic Pork Sandwiches

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
February 18, 2019

Thinking about Super Bowl foods? This recipe can be made ahead of time (so, no stress!)—and is way more delish than BBQ weenies in a crockpot (no offense to weenies).

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WUTHERING HEIGHTS

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
February 2, 2019

By Emily Bronte with introduction by Diane Johnson ISBN: 0-375-75644-2  Various versions of Wuthering Heights available on Amazon.com A timeless classic of love and … Read More

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Best Blastin’ Busters to: De-clutter + De-guilt

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February 1, 2019

It’s a new year. What better time than now to blast away at the nagging guilt quietly tugging within? And why not begin decluttering … Read More

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Snow Crocus

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
February 1, 2019

Snow blankets the ground in much of this wonderful (but absolutely FREEZING) country. Nowadays, the beauty of winter is admired a little less frequently … Read More

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Heart-y Fruit Pie

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
February 1, 2019

Cupid’s arrows are soaring and hearts are a’swooning. So, why not make this pretty gem for the one who puts a sparkle in your eye?

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Spinach-Tortellini Soup

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Wellness + Balance
January 15, 2019

Cozy. Warm. Easy. What more can we ask for in the chill of January? Give this comfort food recipe a try. We bet it’ll … Read More

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ENDURANCE: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 1, 2019

By Alfred LansingISBN: 978-0-78670-621-1 $14.95 on Amazon.com In August 1914, Ernest Shackleton’s ship the Endurance embarked upon a fateful trip, setting sail for Antarctica. His … Read More

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Hot, Buttered Rum

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 1, 2019

If low-cal is the goal, this isn’t the drink for you. However, if a warm-you-to-the-core and feel snuggle-rific beverage sounds toasty, then you’ve just … Read More

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January Amaryllis

Amaryllis

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 1, 2019

It’s cold. It’s dreary. Sunshine is an elusive, albeit always welcome, visitor. Yes, January can be a drag. So, why not brighten things up? … Read More

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Meet Samantha

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle, Good Deeds
May 25, 2018

Because Everybody Needs A Buddy This sweetheart? She’s bringing ‘buddy benches’ to playgrounds everywhere. Because everybody needs a buddy. (And yes, we love her.) … Read More

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Taco Salad Casserole

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
March 15, 2017

The Super Bowl may have passed, but now it’s time for March Madness! What better time to serve up a great taco salad casserole … Read More

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Wow! Wallpaper is BACK!!!

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
March 4, 2017

Want an easy way to update your home or office using some of the hot trends for interior design in 2017? Of course, you do.Jewel tones, neutrals and geometric patterns… Heck, I’ll even throw in some more hot trends: metallic, black + white, blue, nature-themes…oh my!
Yes, wallpaper can hit all of the trends easily and is a great “go-to” solution.

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It Goes Together Like…

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
January 17, 2017

You guessed it: Peaches and Cream So, it’s the bitter winter in the Midwest and on the East coast—and out in sunny Arizona, we … Read More

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Easy Baked Ham for the Holidays

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
December 15, 2016

Sometimes it’s best to get back to the basics. I’ve tried many new recipes over recent years for baking ham. Years ago (many years … Read More

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What’s YOUR Color?

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
December 13, 2016

COLOR PSYCHOLOGY Are you green with envy? Feeling blue? Or, do you have a heart of gold? Color affects our moods, our productivity and, certainly, … Read More

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Beautiful Kitchens on a BUDGET

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
August 12, 2016

photos by Robin Motzer Designs Updating your kitchen and bathroom does not have to cost tens of thousands of dollars (and the inconvenience during … Read More

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Stay Classy: Classic Summer Coleslaw

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
August 2, 2016

For summer, this is another delectable dish everyone (or most everyone!) will enjoy that is cool, can be prepared in advance of your smashing … Read More

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Just Beachin’

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 4, 2016

Since schools are heading into summer break and the official kick-off of the summer season right around the corner, I am sharing this fun-and-fruity shot that will leave anyone who tries it thinking of sun, surf and sand!

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Mary Lou’s Meringue Shells

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

These meringue shells are wonderful to serve with fresh fruit, fruit salad, pudding or your other specialty desserts. Sweet, light and delicious, you can make the cups as small or large as you like.

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Deep (Money) Thoughts

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

Between 1991 and 1998, “Saturday Night Live” would sometimes run a segment entitled “Deep thoughts by Jack Handy.” The segment consisted of a short passage or story, usually with some ironic twist. I liked the pieces then and still find them entertaining now. One quote actually carries a lesson. It went like this…

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Get Colorful

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

Color abounds in nature with the abundance of plant, mineral and animal life, with the changing of light throughout the day and with the change of seasons. It is used in marketing, fashion, housing—it’s in all aspects of our lives, evoking emotions—and sometimes strong ones.

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Unbroken
by Laura Hillenbrand

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

If this story doesn’t nearly move you to tears, check your pulse. This World War II story of incredible survival and resilience is so gripping and unforgettable it’ll undeniably shape your perceptions of WWII far more deeply than the stories of history books.

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The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up
by Marie Kondo

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

There’s a reason she’s known as the guru of tidiness. If you’re looking to eradicate the clutter in your home—and in your life—this book is a must-read. With short chapters loaded with specific instruction, you’ll soon see how accumulating clutter messes up more than just the closets.

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I Still Just Want to Pee Alone by Jenn Mann + Kim Bongiomo

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
April 1, 2016

If you like I Just Want to Pee Alone, you’ll love its sequel. Raw? Oh, yes. Hilarious? You bet. Give it a try. And don’t forget Mother’s Day is just around the corner… give the young moms and moms-to-be a gift of well-deserved giggles.

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I Just Want to Pee Alone by Jenn Mann + Some Kick Ass Mom Bloggers

InSuesShoes.com Home + Lifestyle
March 24, 2016

There are moments in Mom-hood when if we don’t laugh, we’ll cry. That’s why this book series is close-at-heart for so many readers. A NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER, I Just Want to Pee Alone is a hilarious anthology, celebrating the world of the toughest job every mom (even if quietly) loves. A collection of essays written by 37 mom bloggers from across this great country, it’s a must-read for every mom and mom-to-be.

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InSuesShoes.com Positivity + Perspective, Life Advice
March 3, 2019


Warning…

When ‘I’m fine!!’ befalls thine beating eardrums, here’s its translation:  You’ve just agitated—although not yet entirely removed—a grenade’s detonation pin.

Set it down. Walk away.

Not that it’s all your fault.

But, it probably is.


Hubby and I quietly pride ourselves in rarely having disagreements. Fighting is not our style; it’s just not a typical practice for our personalities. Overall, we’re a really great match. Arguments? We’ve had four in the last 8+ years.

Not bad.

But four recently increased to five. And, friends, Numero Cinco was a dandy.

Yep, he yanked out that pin and said grenade (that’s me) erupted, as all small-but-mighty explosives will do.

Then, as timing would have it, I had to buy him a birthday card.

Shhwhhaat?

Have you EVER BOUGHT A CARD when you were MAD at your partner? With every sweet-nothing I read in each stupid card, the burning, lingering shrapnel of said earlier explosion glowed more intensely—as if my husband invisibly stood beside me, gently blowing his hot air to stoke my flames.

With each card message of: “You’re the best lover-cuddly-perfect-hunk-of-my-dreams” garbage I read, irritation bulged my eyeballs and I think a rhino horn began to form on my forehead. I know, so unattractive.

But it was still his birthday. He was still my husband. And I do love him.

But I did NOT like him as I stood with my rhino horn before a sea of cards—from which well-groomed, hornless wives with girlish grins selected perfect prose for their princes. Pllbbbbbbb.

Since I did not see any husband birthday cards insisting he extend ole’ wifey an apology, nor did I find any ‘congratulations for making me feel like crap’ greetings (these shockingly just don’t exist), I had to change strategies.

So I picked up a monkey card. And I learned something new:  It’s impossible to look at a funny monkey card and think about poisoning your husband’s omelet.

I belly-laughed like a fool at that monkey—and my anger began to dissipate. Weird. I guess my husband was really okay for a boy. And definitely WAY sexier than a toothy monkey in sunglasses.

But, the card was too silly for the seriousness of during- and post-fight circumstances. So, I continued my search. Then, as if moving spotlights from a thousand car dealerships were guiding my search, I found ‘the one.’ Its words obliterated all intentions to rearrange contents in his dresser so he could never again find anything.

Yes, I bought the perfect, lovey card. And I apologized to my husband for my part of the argument. Why? Because I love my husband.

Yet, what remained was the elusive reciprocal apology, the delicacy of which cannot be taken lightly. Here’s why: my innate garrison of grenades is only further complemented by what’s been widely labeled as “Su(e)perhuman Stubbornness.”

And this genetic resistance has only ever been outmatched by one other human on this planet. It’s the guy walking around with unpoisoned eggs in his belly.

I knew he’d make me wait for the apology. And he did.

But then, guess what? Bingo! He said sorry, too. (I love that part of the story.)

We worked it through. We took turns talking and listening. We had a gin and tonic, my rhino horn almost completely disappeared, and all was right again.

Hey, every relationship worth a bean takes work. And sometimes it’s the bumps, detonations and erroneous forehead growths that best guide us all to real, loving fulfillment.

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